A woman's greatest desire is to isolate one mate who will provide resources. Most women will not tell you this directly, and they may not even think it. But, they will think about all the necessary requirements. I knew a women who completely terminated a relationship because the man gave a birthday gift to another women, and didn't give one to her (or at least took too long to figure out that she needed one). The signal here was that he's providing resources to another. Women want *exclusive* access to a man's resources, and that instinct was programmed into them because man's primary role is resource provision. He can't reproduce, so that's all that is left. Some women also manifest this need in their desire to be married. Marriage is contract based version of this tendency to provide resources, where legal obligations are put in place. The point is, for a typical woman to really love a man and want a relationship, she has to identify him as a good and exclusive resource provider.
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