Common advice is that compliments aren't good openers because they make you seem sort of easy and don't lead anywhere. My experience is that if the first thing you say is a compliment, it doesn't exactly lead anywhere. Like if you just say "you're cute" that doesn't really go anywhere. However, if you ask where she's from and make some observation about facial features, ask more questions etc., then complimenting is totally appropiate and does lead places. So it's a good thing when used conversationally. Women feel more at ease once they know what you think.
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